This is one of the most misunderstood struggles in relationships.
Your partner thinks you want more intimacy.
You think you should want more intimacy.
So everyone focuses on sex.
How…
Your phone rings.
You answer.
Someone needs help.
You help.
A child needs attention.
A client needs support.
A partner needs something.
And somehow…
You always find a way to…
It’s one of the most common fears people bring into my office.
"I don't think I'm attracted to my partner anymore."
And the fear underneath that statement is enormous.
Because…
You tell yourself it’s work.
The business. The clients. The deadlines.
That must be why you’re exhausted.
But if you’re honest...
It’s more than that.
You’re tired from being the…
Your partner depends on you.
The family depends on you. Your business depends on you. Everyone seems to need something from you.
And at first, that felt meaningful.
You felt…
After this launch.
After the kids get older.
After this busy season.
After the move.
After the holidays.
After things settle down.
You keep telling yourself that then you'll have…