And there’s a difference.
Anger is loud.
Resentment is quiet.
Anger says:
"Something needs attention."
Resentment says:
"I've been carrying this alone for too long."
Most high-functioning women don't explode.…
You ask for very little.
At least that's what you tell yourself.
You don't want to be demanding.
You don't want to be difficult.
You don't want to create problems…
You drop hints.
You make comments.
You hope they’ll pick up on it.
You think:
"If they really loved me, they would notice."
"If they were paying attention, they would…
This is one of the most misunderstood struggles in relationships.
Your partner thinks you want more intimacy.
You think you should want more intimacy.
So everyone focuses on sex.
How…
Your phone rings.
You answer.
Someone needs help.
You help.
A child needs attention.
A client needs support.
A partner needs something.
And somehow…
You always find a way to…
It’s one of the most common fears people bring into my office.
"I don't think I'm attracted to my partner anymore."
And the fear underneath that statement is enormous.
Because…